lovesparis Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 STILL dreaming about the ex. ALL WEEK everyday i wake up with fleeting thoughts and images from these dreams.... GAH it's been OVER A YEAR.
sultry33 Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 STILL dreaming about the ex. ALL WEEK everyday i wake up with fleeting thoughts and images from these dreams.... GAH it's been OVER A YEAR. damn id call that a nightmare;) have you had any dates.. got busy etc?
wowIlose Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 I have been having dreams lately again as well. Its been a little over a year and I dream about her what seems about once a week. Not very encouraging, but hopefully temporary.
Melrapuo Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 It will happen sporadically for a while. At least until someone better comes along.
SelfCentered Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 Yeah. Keep having sex dreams (nightmares?) about the ex. Not cool. Worst way to wake up. Although they seem much more physically based than emotional, which is better I guess. Dreams suck 'cause they're the one thing you can't really control, as far as I know at least.
Meaplus3 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 LP. The dreams will fade with time.. even if it takes a while. AP:)
Author lovesparis Posted November 14, 2008 Author Posted November 14, 2008 sultry-- i've been dating someone else for 7months or so. i have my hobbies and my friends. it's just i get in these ruts and the dreams happen and it sends me spiraling down. if i could remember them it could be beneficial, methinks. my first waking thought after the first dream in this series was that if i told my friend (who is a counselor) she would tell me i'm working out getting over him. we'll see i guess. one of my other friends said "maybe he's dreaming about you at the same time" of course this doesn't help and i told her to stop encouraging me to think that way.
sultry33 Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 sultry-- i've been dating someone else for 7months or so. i have my hobbies and my friends. it's just i get in these ruts and the dreams happen and it sends me spiraling down. if i could remember them it could be beneficial, methinks. my first waking thought after the first dream in this series was that if i told my friend (who is a counselor) she would tell me i'm working out getting over him. we'll see i guess. one of my other friends said "maybe he's dreaming about you at the same time" of course this doesn't help and i told her to stop encouraging me to think that way. maybe it s just a healing process.. i can recall a time when my ex said he felt like he had cheated as he dreamt of an ex when we was together..like they had baby etc but i said dont stress it.. i dream of my exs too;) maybe not best reply:laugh: but he did tell me he has a lot of norty dreams about me deep down im glad.. i want him to remember them times.. i dont thnk you can channel into your dreams so maybe its just related to how your life is at the moment is there a special someone and emotions are gettin involved sometimes the personin your dream is not the actual person its about.. if that makes sense? its the meaning not the actors i hope that you can overcome this so you can heal completly
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Your unconscious mind is still focusing on this - that's why you're dreaming of it. And there's no timer on how long it takes to heal. It's like breaking a leg - you do all you can but the leg's kind of got to help itself. Be as pro-active as you can. If the dreams continue and continue i.e. constantly reoccuring and it's not day-dreaming/fantasising (i.e. out of your control) you might want to face directly whatever unconscious thoughts and feelings are causing you to dream this. Desire for love? Hankering for the past?
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