NeverbeensoConfused Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 I had been going out with my gf for about 4months, every thing was going great, we never argued or fought and I thought we where both happy. Then suddenly we where out one night at a house party one night and she brought me up stairs to talk. She said she doesn't know why she feels like this but that she felt it was not right and she needed time catch up with herself and that she only suddenly felt like this. I really had no clue what she was going on about 'catch up with herself' really I had no idea what this meant. So after she kept on saying to me she never had any one treat her as well as I done and that I was just too perfect so I couldn't really understand what that problem was or what was wrong. So then after a few days she texts me saying she wants to break up for a while at least so she can sort her head out and that she was sorry as I had never done any thing wrong, and also that the holiday we had booked was putting pressure on her (holiday now canceled ) so now I don't know what to do! its been like 10 days and I really don't want to loose her. She had also said she was fed up with her work and all so unless I just give her time or give up! i dunno
SRV Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 It must be tough, love sucks when it gets to this point. Anyway, go through the posts on the forum and 9 out of 10 when a gf says what she did to you, she is probably seeing someone else or is no longer interested in investing in the relationship and it is a kind and polite way of letting you know. Best thing would be for you to give her space, do not beg, do not plead. If possible, do not contact her, let her contact you if she ever has a change of heart, but at that point it might be too late and you might have moved on to bigger and better things in your life. Good luck!
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