CGrace44 Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 I have been dating this guy for about 2 weeks. We had sex for the first time last night (not the first time ever, but the first time with each other). The sex was amazing, but neither one of us finished during it. I have had sex with 3 other partners before and have never reached orgasm, so it wasn't a big deal for me. He said he didn't finish because he wanted to get me to orgasm before he finished. It has never been a big deal to me that I haven't orgasmed before, but I really like this guy and it bothered him a little bit that I didn't orgasm. I really don't know how to get myself to orgasm. Any tips or insight so that next time I can finish when I'm with him (and not have to fake it like I have with other guys I've been with)?
BikerBeagle Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 You are the only one who can answer your own question ...it's your body. Surely, you have had an orgasm before, right? They say 30% of women simply can't vaginally orgasm, so you might have to think outside the box ...no pun intended =). I was in a relationship like this and, since she was honest with me from the beginning, I had no problem adjusting to accomodate ...I'm sure your BF won't either.
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