Mary3 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 Good for him. Too bad he needs to look pretty to do it. Well actually after we made love he let me help him shave his face...something about watching a man shave..sexy...awhhhh
kashmir Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 I do know what a real man is but this guy did swoon me thats for sure . He had more clothes than I did though , lol ! Well, as far as the clothes go...I can understand that. Granted, a guy who drops $300 on designer jeans and sunglasses is a dumbass, but nothing wrong with being stylish. I dress kinda fancy for my age, with nice merell leather shoes, jeans, and usually a unique dress shirt (not the same old a&f or hollister d-bag crap that a million tools around here wear). Then again, sometimes I'll wear a huge flannel shirt with messy hair when I don't feel like looking good. I can be eccentric, heh. I'm talking about guys (or girls) who think that body hair is disgusting and an uneven tan is a cardinal sin. I'm Middle Eastern so naturally I'm a hairy mo'fo. I trim, but waxing just seems so...gay.
Isolde Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 I'd be concerned about the mannerisms, but not about the cats or cat rescue org (thats so cute!) He could be bisexual; that would explain the passionate part.
Katherineos123 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 He's not gay if he is genuinely attracted to/having sex with you. It could however, although unlikely, that he is trying to convince himself thats he is not gay, because of some type of introverted homophobia, by having sex with you. What it boils down to, in my opinion, is whether or not you can deal with the manneurisms and such, or whether or not they are a complete turn off to you. Ive been in a similar situation. A guy I know was pursuing me, and although he was VERRRRRY good looking and a lot of fun to be around, he had a feminine tendancy to him, and it was too much for me. Different Strokes for Different Folks. (no pun intended )
Ocean-Blue Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 I take it you don't like effeminate men (if he is even that). Unless you have something remotely concrete to go on, you are wasting your time worrying about this. Are you slowly becoming unattracted to him?
sandflea Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 Not sure why you need to define the guy. Seems to me, if A.) he does it for you B.) You guys get along, and C.) You both are relatively comfortable with how things are unfolding - then, hey man - let it ride! But, yeah - if you're not comfortable, and you can't quite explain it - it's just your intuition - I'd listen to that..
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