CaliMan2 Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 Been married for about 18 months. I think the relationship has run its course and I'd like to brake up. The issue I have is braking her heart. I'm sure that in the future she will survive and move on, but I'm just concerned about hurting her so deeply now. I will be hurt also but I know that I'll deal with it a lot better than she will. Anybody got any ideas? In my last long term relo (not married) when I wanted to get out I just tended to ignore her, not put up with any sh*t and she left me. I just don't want to hurt her but it seems unavoidable, I'll feel real bad doing it. Anybody got any other ideas on how to handle this?
Poiter Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 I have to ask, why do you want to end it exactly?
BikerBeagle Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 Wow, married 18 months and the 'relationship' has run it's course ...are you serious? Way to hang in there "for better or worse"!
Author CaliMan2 Posted November 11, 2008 Author Posted November 11, 2008 A combination of factors. At the start of our relationship I found things that I thought would deem us incompaitable, but I just ignored it and thought / hoped it would change for the better but it hasn't. Things such as a tendency to lie, hide money, be extremely stressed all the time (which affects my quality of life on a daily basis), selfish in a way I didn't expect. I think most of her flaws as I see them stem from immaturity rather than being a bad person but I just think I would be happier by myself.
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