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Hi I am new to this forum. I am about a week from my divorce's final judgement. My custody is shared joint 50-50 and I have my 2 girls Sunday 9am through Wed 7pm.

 

All with the kids has been well since me and my ex split other than the normal back and forth about us situation.

 

A month after we split she got herself involved with a guy who was pretty much a live in boyfriend which means he was around my kids. Now before people start bashing me I will say that I know reality and one day my kids will have another man in they're life and hopefully he can respect them and understand they have a great father.

 

The problem I have had is that as soon as she met him my kids were introduced and I had found out he was picking my kids up on his shoulders and tickling them. I don't approve of this. I even told my ex this and she said it was none of my business and the kids are ok.

 

Well about a month later I found out that she broke up with him. So I was told this...

 

She said he was a pot head and that this was a concern for her and also he is an off shore fisherman who leaves during the fall/winter months.

 

After he was gone she had appologized that having the kids around him was a mistake and she wouldn't do that to them again unless she knew she was going to be serious with a guy.

 

So all was pretty well in regards to this situation until the other day.

 

What happened is she accidentally sent me an email that I am guessing she tried copy herself on and instead it was me... to this guy. What I found out is he is in jail for the 2nd time for possession of Heroin. In the email she expressed her undying love for him and that if he can stay off drugs she would marry him and have babies with him. He is eligible for parole in June and I told her that I have the email and will do anything to protect my kids from this man.

 

I said if I find out he is around them I will go after custody. Maybe not full but to where she can only see the kids with supervised visitation.

 

I can't believe she would even consider having someone like that around our kids. To make a long story short I think she has fell off the rocker because there are so many other things that she has done to put herself and her kids in jeopardy. I just cant take it anymore and need to start preparing now for June or whenever this guy gets out.

 

Can anyone provide some feedback or anything that could help me? I would really appreciate it.

 

Thanks!

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I would suggest consulting with your lawyer. I agree that it is never too early to find out what you will and will not (legally) be able to do, when the guy gets out. It will also help to put your mind at ease, in the meantime.

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