bigbear25 Posted November 10, 2008 Posted November 10, 2008 ok guys i am going crazy right now. i just went out on a first date saturday night with a girl that i really care about and everything went great. when i was with her this one kid who shes friend with texted her saying i love you and stuff but he already has a girlfriend. so you know i was a little upset about this. she made comments like hes so weird and stuff. like she didnt say i love you or anything like that back. anyways everything i was fine sunday afternoon, so i went to my friends house after work. they hapen to go to the same school to the guy who texted her i love you and stuff. so i asked him if he knew who he was, and he said that he heard he was on drugs and stuff. so me, trying to protect her, i told her about it. she then asked the kid if he even knew my friend and he said no but he really does. my friend said he has known him for a year. basically the kid lied so that my girl wouldnt find out that he was on drugs so now my girl thinks i lied about the whole thing and used my friend to reveal the story which was not the case. she is really good friends with this guy and she trusts him more i guess. i called her to apologize and she hung up after a while, then i left a voicemail. she talked to me today texting and said that she was willing to forget about it. but when i said i wanted to hold her she was like can you not say that? she usually says like mmm ok or sumthin like that. so im in a tough spot and i cant concentrate on anything. is this a big deal at all? why is she so mad? what can i do? i really really care about her. Thanks
sultry33 Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 not wanting to hold you is bad. do you really want a relationship like this?
CommitmentPhobe Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 well, you can text her that you love her and then she can tell someone else about how weird you are, she seems to like doing this.
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