imagine Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 The boundaries: Well here's the thing. I would totally have a threesome with her I wouldn't care you know? I would totally be able to handle it, I find this comment weird. Do you know what you are saying? Lots of posters have fed your jealousy. Maybe they are right, maybe not. The jury is still out on that one for me. Focus on the facts: Vacation apart from you is a higher priority than being with you.
Charles1978 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 This one is easy for me. I'd get rid of her quickly. She is cheating on you man. I know it sucks, but just move on.
YellowLioness Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 After reading your posts, I have some questions: 1) Why would you consider her your girlfriend? It sounds like she probably doesn't consider you as a boyfriend. Or, if she does, not a serious one. 2) Are you thinking of committing to her? If so, think of this: committment doesn't change people. Marriage doesn't change people. If she cheats on you now, she'll cheat on you when you're engaged and when your married. I'm not saying that a zebra can't change its stripes, but usually that takes extensive therapy. My opinion is that you don't trust her, but it's easier to try to convince yourself that you do trust her then it is to rock the boat on an otherwise satisfactory relationship. You just need to figure out your priorities. It will be easier once you do that.
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