dongar64 Posted November 10, 2008 Posted November 10, 2008 I have been married for 14 years 3 kids 21,14,10. Marriage has been rocky. He has been on the internet for a while chatting and such. It was a problem hewouldnt stop I was getting mad. Then in June I asked him about a voice mail from some women He tells me he is moving out and we are going to get a divorce. He leaves that night. The person was from out of state. a few weeks go by and I have a feeling he is dating someone he at his office. I'm crazy Blah blah. denys the whole thing. He is paying all the bills seeing the kids regularly. Saying how he is confused He doesn't know what he wants. I finally Catch him with the women. He comes over all the time crying saying what a loser he is. He's not sure what he wants.The kids are confused (they don't know about gf) I am confused. I mean he chose this path and if he wanted to work things then quit the gf and go to counseling. I try to act all level headded about this but it's starting to drive me insane. I mean there is no fighting, he pays the bills, He keeps me hanging on thinking theres hope. When I ask him he just breaks down won't answer just saying he is an ******* he's better off dead.. It makes no sense..I gusse my question is has any one dealt with a spouse who chooses to leave and acts like it's the worse thing in the world and cries and feels so much guilt..Yes I love him and want him back but as every day passes I don't think that will be an option..
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