seattle1979 Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 so i knew this guy from school and we started flirting and there was a lot of attraction. We finally hooked up after 5 months in and saw each other for about 2 months. Things were really fun, lots of chemistry etc. and got along great....but near the end of the 2 months he backed off a bit, started contacting me less so finally we went out one time and I just asked him straight up if there was still any interest. He was honest with me and said that he thought it was going a little too fast and that it seemed like I wanted it to get more serious (which was kinda true I guess, only made sense to me to start seeing each other exclusively) but he wasnt ready for it and would like to still see me but should know that he's not ready for a commitment. It sucked but I trespected his view, told him its no problem but I dont want to date him anymore and lets just be friends then. I think this took him by surprise because he probably thought I would have agreed to just see him when he was 'available'. At this point I still do like him but Im also not the type to sit around and wait so I did what I had to do. So about a month passes and I dont contact him at all and neither does he....and now out of the blue he has started to send me msgs on msn/facebook etc pretty much everyday for the last wk. like nothing ever happened. Theres no mention about anything that happened in the past or meeting up but there is flirting going on. Im guessing that he just wants to keep contact for whatever reason but any thought on what to make of this??
Vince Black Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 Tough one...I'm thinking there was probably an old girlfriend that he wasn't done with. Maybe now he is. If he is...then make sure you spell it out to him what you are looking for. If he doesn't agree.. no go.
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