venkatdabri Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 Hello Friends, I am having trouble getting a date. Most of my friends say that I am good looking and I am of athletic build. I go dancing and attend dance classes. I do meet girls but I notice the same pattern again and again. I see a girl very interested in me(or I think so). I do talk with her. After a few weeks, she loses interest in me. Is it because I haven't asked her out for a date? Being Indian, we are used to waiting a long time before making a move. Most of my friends advise me that it wise to strike early. But I am afraid that if I do, then she may stop being friendly with me and in the back of my mind I am also worried that she may tell this to my other friends in the same group and I would look like an idiot.
alphamale Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 try starting out your relationships in a romantic way instead of in a friendly way...you can ask a woman you just met out on a date after a 15 minute conversation
orangehose Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 Don't worry about looking like an idiot. We all look like idiots at one point or another in the game of love. Yes, a girl may reject you and then tell her friends about it, but she's the loser if she's gloating over it.
Author venkatdabri Posted November 16, 2008 Author Posted November 16, 2008 Most Americans at least had lots of girlfriends/boyfriends. They know the culture and can say when a guy or girl is interested in them. I am just entering the scene and would have to learn everything from scratch. How long would it take to get the hang of dating and enter a long term relationship or marriage. I am already 30 years old and would need to have to get married at least by 33. Are there any indians who have successfully dated in USA?
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