ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 ok, im in 10th grade, and i have gym class with this one girl. we are currently doing volleyball in gym. while we r practicing passing, she says "this bra is killing me" and the teacher warns her that she might not want to talk about that while im there. she says "I dont mind" and she reaches in her shirt and fixes her bra. plus, she takes some glances at me during the time. Anyway, im a shy type and im not sure wether to approach her or what. help will be much appreciated.
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 If you can some how figure away to be confident enough to say and do all the things you already want to do you'll be set...
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 Thats just it. idk wat i want to do!
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 Thats just it. idk wat i want to do! yeah you do, you were just to shy to try anything. Tell me if you were writing a play right now with that exact scene how would you make it go
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 Well, i would say the scene would play out like: Boy sees girl alone; Boy talks to the girl for about one minute; The girl hardly talks and just watches; Boy notices girl says "ha" and "huh" often; Boy says good-bye; Girl says "bye"; Boy wonders if he did anything to change any status; Girl goes on with what she was doing.
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 nooo... if you had been more confident you would have asked her "are you flirting with me?" in a confident cocky tone... No actualy if you had been more confident you would have gone with the title.. "wow this is some major flirting" she would have blushed... laughed... maybe denied it. Then she would have thought you were cool. Then maybe you'd say to youreslf boy I'd like to get physical with this girl I better figure some way to get her alone.... and then youd ask her out on some sort of date type hangout thing where you would proceed to make her laugh show your cool and kiss her before the end
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 In my area, girls might get VERY pissed off at you for sayin theyre flirtin or even asking. Besides, i cant even begin to wonder how id be able to go out with her, since i dont have a car.
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 In my area, girls might get VERY pissed off at you for sayin theyre flirtin or even asking. Besides, i cant even begin to wonder how id be able to go out with her, since i dont have a car. Well without a car you could still go out. You have your parents take you, its a little lame but so what. You asked for my advice and I think girls in your area are alot like girls in the other areas for example they'll enjoy confidence and flirting
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 What i do, is try my best to talk with her for a bit, then ask her out, probably have to use a taxi since my family HAS no car, hopefully the date goes ok, and i might get a gf. Am i right? or am i missing something?
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 What i do, is try my best to talk with her for a bit, then ask her out, probably have to use a taxi since my family HAS no car, hopefully the date goes ok, and i might get a gf. Am i right? or am i missing something? You don't need a taxi... How do you get place like the mall do you take a bus? you could have her meat you there for a movie and hang out... Look man don't put pressure on yourself just have a good time with all this. Great story by the way how she adjusted her bra infront of you haha good times
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 I do take a bus. OMG. I CAN ASK HER OUT TO THE NEW TWILIGHT MOVIE COMING OUT!!! ....maybe. oh ya, and Bra thing was just random on her part...
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 Remember its no big deal it just like asking a friend to hang out. You don't have to call it a date just be like "I'm going to see that movie looks cool, you should come see it with me" then just pay for the tickets, if she makes a big deal about it let her pay for her own... but most likely just buy hers... then kiss her before you say goodbye... remember shes not the only girl in the world... and making a move and getting rejected is way better then doing nothing and not being rejected. Oh yeah and Flirt back... just not majorly
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 How do you flirt in a movie theatre? i have heard of arm-around-shoulder and popcorn-hands-touching tricks. Are there any other non-classics?
Green Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 you can pretty much just enjoy the movie and put your arm by her on the armrest... she might grab you if there is a scary part. The flirting is for when the movie is not actualy on and before and after you ask her out. Just be silly, tease her about something, make it fun for her and you, make her laugh, and find ways to touch her
Author ff7fanbdb Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 Thnx for the help man. ill talk with her for about a week then try and ask her out.
torranceshipman Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 'i have heard of arm-around-shoulder and popcorn-hands-touching tricks' Omg so sweet, I remember those days....apart from the popcorn hands thing if that works and if she likes you she might also keep her hand kinda close to yours and hope that you hold her hand later on in the movie (that was my move when I was about your age anyways )
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