Brady_to_Moss Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 Who else here is a little on the sad side that they havent found someone?
newagain Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I was for a while, then I met someone, and now I'm totally confused! Still, I feel your pain. I'm still lonely, but hopeful. How long have you been without someone?
Left in a Lurch Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I am, but even Brady didn't have Moss until last year, so buck up! Your Randy Moss will come along some day when you least expect it, probably in a prison shower.
kizik Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 I was for a while, then I met someone, and now I'm totally confused! Still, I feel your pain. I'm still lonely, but hopeful. Newagain, this is fascinating - I would love to hear about why you are confused now that you have someone, and in what ways you still feel lonely. I fluctuate daily between loneliness in my singleness, and pleasure in the freedom it provides.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 HAHA i love the Randy Moss analogy! Some days i love being single but today is one day where i hate it...have nothing to do at all today..i just want someone to talk too... most of the time i hate it and i am the only one that can do something about it but my confidence and courage to talk to girls sucks so i just avoid them now...havent been with someone in like 3 years...
Left in a Lurch Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 We're in the same boat. I used to do pretty well but took it for granted. Now I find it hard to meet single women so I just decided to do things I want to do when I want to do them, enjoy the freedom a bit. I find it goes in cycles and just let it be and don't go out of my way and I found I don't care to much about doing things alone. All my married and attached friends seems unhappy and never seem to have time to do the things they want. 1/2 of them are getting divorced and are miserable and the other 1/2 are usually miserable. I just look at it like everywhere I go I may meet someone interesting and it is an opportunity to meet someone great but if not, tomorrow looks pretty good.
kizik Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 I just decided to do things I want to do when I want to do them, enjoy the freedom a bit... I just look at it like everywhere I go I may meet someone interesting and it is an opportunity to meet someone great but if not, tomorrow looks pretty good. I absolutely love your attitude, CRH. Way to go! You are an inspiration.
newagain Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 kisik, I'm confused because I don't have him. I met him, went out with him, and he has emailed me a few times, and we saw each other again (bootycall), and we exchanged email again, BUT he has not asked me out again. I'm not sure if he is playing the wait to call her game, or if he is busy on the weekend, or if he just wants last minute calls that lead to sex. So, I'm still lonely (and confused) because I want to go out with him on another date (or more), and he hasn't asked me out again. See:New to all this again http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t169561/ I would really appreciate a guy's perspective. Thank you.
wergo Posted November 10, 2008 Posted November 10, 2008 Oh, yeah. Decades of nothing but rejection can kill your will to live pretty effectively. Sometimes "opportunity" is just a painful illusion. Delusion?
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