sarahlioy Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 So i've written on here before. My boyfriend just broke up with me five days ago. Were in high school. We have every class together but yesterday i didnt show up. He hasn't called me. Do you think he will? I miss him so much. We had such a connection he told me to move on but deep down i know he will come back. We havent had that closer.
UnamedSeven Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 Ugh, thats terrible. I don't have any classes with this girl in my High school, but i am subject to see her everyday due to how close our lockers are. Depending on the situation, its hard to tell if he will come back (i know nothing of the situation other than this post). When a guy tells you to move on, i've been in the situation of telling someone that and coming back not long after. If you can re-post your story, i would be glad to help out more
Author sarahlioy Posted November 8, 2008 Author Posted November 8, 2008 its been four days, november third he broke up with me. the day before our seventh month. he said he couldn't take it anymore. let me back up and give you some background about our relationship. we had a connection that i can not explain. than again we fought a lot and it made us stressed out. although when we looked at each other in the eyes we just knew we love one another. we hung out the night before we broke up everything was fine. after we broke up i tried my hardest to get him back, because i told myself i wouldnt give up. he promised me a lot of stuff when we were together and its crushed. now i keep telling myself, im not going to dwell over someone i cant have. i think this a time to find myself and have fun being sixteen. still back in my head i know i still love him and we share so many memories. i still have this thought he'll come back even though he said were done for good and he said no more chances. than again i dont want to get my hopes up and just keep that thought in the back of my head. i stopped crying because i feel lifes to short to cry. i just wish he knew how much i love him. i feel our relationship hasn't had that closer. just need advise.
Author sarahlioy Posted November 8, 2008 Author Posted November 8, 2008 oh forgot to mention his lockers right under mine.
UnamedSeven Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I know that somewhere on this site, there is a thread that tells you how to get back your ex. Apparently, its helped many but i know it can't help everyone. If he says that there is no more chances, then the probability of him coming back are very slim. Like you mentioned, you can't always hold onto him. If you wish to maybe have something in the future, then you can try to just rebuild/start over with him. As annoying and pointless as it may seem, this opportunity can let him know that he made a huge mistake by ending the relationship between you and him. Again, its not something to count on. You can't count on there ever being anything more than just a mere friendship between you and him. If things are meant to happen, then they will but its just the way life goes and there hasn't been a day where i haven't missed my ex and cry over "what was".
Author sarahlioy Posted November 8, 2008 Author Posted November 8, 2008 thank you so much, it just hurts. we have to talk before the next month because we have two projects to do together.
UnamedSeven Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I would highly suggest that when you are doing the project with him, to be as completely calm as possible. This shows him that you are able to get over the past (even though you haven't) and i highly doubt that he is totally over you so how you act, can have a positive outcome which could lead to something good. As much as it may hurt (believe me, i know) there are better people around and it just takes some time to find that one person. It may be in your best interest to cherish the old memories, while allowing new ones to take its course.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 Heya Sarah! Waiting on a second chance is always dangerous. It can keep you from moving on... but from the sounds of it, its going to be hard to do either way because your ex is in all your classes. Since hes seeing you so much, there is one thing you CAN do to make yourself feel better, and may in turn, make him regret ever dumping you. What can you do? Be happy without him, don't act hurt around him, smile like you normally would, and dress cute. You'll start feeling great because you will be able to look in the mirror and KNOW you're pretty and desirable, and your smile will not only make you happy, but others around you. You'll look confident and he'll probably begin to regret leaving you. That does not necessarily mean you'll get him back. There are never guarantees in these things, and second chances are very very rare. But at the very least, you'll look amazing and you'll probably catch your ex glancing your way a few times. Sorry I can't do more the help, but that in itself should work wonders!
UnamedSeven Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I agree with Tokyo. Even if you did all those things, for not even considering him, then that would make you an overall better person. Most people in the world don't realize the saying: "Life goes on. With or without you". As time passes, somehow, your heart erases all of the bad things from what happened in the past. You don't even notice it. Just be happy that it was his loss
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