BlueHarvest Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 LOL shygirl. That's funny. Duality at it's finest.
lovestruck818 Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 Oh yeah?? Do you have a multiple personalities disorder or something?? lol, you know the 2nd one was a joke, right? wow some people have no sense of humour. No wonder you have to resort to use the internet to get dates- pathetic.
Shygirl15 Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 lol, you know the 2nd one was a joke, right? wow some people have no sense of humour. No wonder you have to resort to use the internet to get dates- pathetic. lol... Nice try. Well, at least I get to meet smart guys who are successful in their careers and life in general, and not some lazy bums who lack ambition and still live with their parents...know what I mean?
lovestruck818 Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 lol... Nice try. Well, at least I get to meet smart guys who are successful in their careers and life in general, and not some lazy bums who lack ambition and still live with their parents...know what I mean? what's wrong with living at home? esp. if ya have a good job. It's very common here where I live. people here live at home well into their late 20's-30's. And smart is nothing if they don't have the good looks to go with it. And just cuz someone lives at home doesn't mean they are not ambitious.
jayOG Posted November 9, 2008 Posted November 9, 2008 Sinkingship made a good point... He pretty much said to make it clear that it is a date. However, this can also put too much pressure on the other person. It also opens the door up for too much expectations... I like to use the word "chill"... "Yeah we should chill some time..." Anyways, if a girl doesn't at least make an effort to pay on a first date it is pretty much over. I always pay, but she has to make the effort. If she stands around expecting me to pay she can walk home... It's just common courtesy... The kiss... I don't know what to do either... I've never made the first move so I don't really know. You have to read your date and see where she stands. I flirt a lot and build excessive amounts of tension until she's ready to jump my bones... I usually do the hug thing after a date. I've also had a girl tell me that she thought I didn't like her because I didn't kiss her... Just flow with it, don't force anything and see what happens.
Shygirl15 Posted November 10, 2008 Posted November 10, 2008 what's wrong with living at home? esp. if ya have a good job. It's very common here where I live. people here live at home well into their late 20's-30's. And smart is nothing if they don't have the good looks to go with it. And just cuz someone lives at home doesn't mean they are not ambitious. I just quoted your own words, love, but again you probably don't remember. Well, what else is new..
BentSpine Posted November 10, 2008 Posted November 10, 2008 Just remember, the right woman for you will enjoy spending time with you even if she has to pay her own way.I take back what I wrote above. I realised that the woman I'm talking about is the right woman for ME, not necessarily you. The right woman for YOU depends on what future you envision. For example, if you want to convince a girl about your desire to sponsor her spending habits, then paying for the both of you is likely a prerequisite.
Mahatma Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 Sounds to me like a date. It is usually your choice in this type of situation. If you pay, it is a date. If you go dutch, you are just friends hanging out. I'll tell you though that she probably wants it to be a date.
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