lelostone Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 im so glad i found this site. Ive been so torn lately. My girlfriend works in a mall, and recently shes been befrending some guys there. One is a security guard and the other is a cop. i dont have a problem with the security guard, because they only talk once and a while. However my girlfriend is constantly texting this cop, even more than she talks to me. Not only that, he is being very flirtatious with her, and he even said her he wanted to get with her before he ne she was with me. Ive told her that i feel uncomfortable, but she said, oh he is just joking. And the reason i text him is because i never see him, and i see you everyday. Do i have right to feel this way. I mean weve been together for a year and half, and she met this guy like two weeks ago...
Yamaha Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 She's enjoying his attention and you do have a right to be upset. You have told her of your concerns ( and valid one's too ) so I would tell her she needs to quit texting this cop and respect your relationship. If she refuses or you find she is still doing it behind you back then it is time to cut her loose because she seems more intent on defying you then working things out.
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