fabulousgal Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 i think it finally hit me someone walked away from me. it's been about a month. i've done some good things, worked a crapload, stayed really busy, hung out with friends, seeing my therapist, started yoga... but today i feel down right horrible. i can't even work, i feel numb.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I had those feelings for sure during the first month of doing my break up. I NEEDED to get work done, but working made me feel lonely, focusing on chatting with friends was okay, but when I was alone doing work I'd fall to shreds. I couldn't focus. Everything hurt. You'll start getting better, you'll start enjoying work as a distraction, and soon life will be back to normal. It may take months, but I found the first month flew by, because it just hurt SO BADLY. All I remember is pain, which went quick. My heart goes out to you, I'm sorry you're at this stage of pain.
CherishG Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I'm still in this horrible pain and it's been 2 months. I wish I knew when it will all end becoz I can't take it anymore
EmperorR Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I'm still in this horrible pain and it's been 2 months. I wish I knew when it will all end becoz I can't take it anymore Same boat as you
fran82 Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 hey i'll be honest, even after 8 months it doesn't get much better. ive done the busy thing, the worked harder thing, the improved my life thing, still hurts like hell! so im trying the facing up to the bare reality thing, so far its pretty bad, but im still alive, which is good! maybe sometimes doing the busy thing just delays whatever it is you need to go through, all those horrible days. you need those days to appreciate the good days whenever they come your way. i'd like to tell you it gets better, but i cant yet. but "yet" is the way to think. its got to get better take care
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