dakotamaiden Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 i have a guy friend of 3 months, we see each other at work sometimes, plus we talk on phone once a week for a hour. he has said he likes me and ive told him i like him. he really has a hectic schedule so we dont hang out , talk on phone. my problem is sometimes i feel insecure like last night i called him , i could tell he was snoozing when he answered phone, he lost a whole nites sleep because he worked er all tues nite plus sugery next day. so we only talked a few min then he said he was going to bed. i understand that, but i feel bummed out after i hang up like maybe he didnt want to talk to me. i should no better. but sometimes i have insecurity feelings. this is the first guy FRIEND ive ever had. iam in my late 40's. we like each other , there good be something special later when we become closer friends. we have a spark between us. iam not use to this because when ive been envolved with a guy it was sexual and i always thought it was more but in the end it never was. how do i get myself to quit feeling insecure at times. show him i care about him without scaring him off, or turning him off. hes a great guy ,once he told me hes been thru alot and he can handle alot without losing a friendship. he told me this when i told him i was sorry for doing something i thought was stupid on my part. he told me not to worry about it everythings fine.
complication Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 Guys don't get scared off like women. Tell him you like him, if he's into you he'll reciprocate more clearly. Flirt first if you can.
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