anya85 Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I've posted a few times about my break up. It's been 6 weeks now, he broke up with me. He really seemed to push being friends--he was very cheerful and friendly to me afterwards. So we were friends for about a month--talking every day online. Then I decided that I was unhappy with the situation because I knew I wanted to be more than friends, but he never brought up anything about "us" or the relationship...he was all "friend talk". So about two weeks ago, I cut back my contact with him. I didn't log on at all for the most part and when I did, I didn't say a word to him until he spoke to me first. Even then, I didn't speak to him for very long. He seemed very curious, asking me a lot of questions...how I was, what I'd been up too, what I did for halloween, blah blah blah. Then I disappeared for several more days, until yesterday. He acted very odd yesterday. He spoke to me immediately when I logged on. Again, he started with the "how are you?", "what have you been up too?" so I told him I was great and excited because I had 4 days off and I was planning on having an awesome weekend, so then he wanted to know my plans(I was vague about it though), we talked about the election--he agreed with everything I said(we were happy about it). Then he says "I'm an *******, aren't I?" so I question what he means and he's like "You must think I'm an *******." Then he's like "nevermind, I don't know what I'm talking about." So I change the subject to something else. Then out of nowhere he asks me if I'm seeing any one. I was thrown off by that, but I told him no. Then he says "Neither am I." Again, I wasn't sure how to respond so I was silent for a long while then I just said "ah". Then he's like "thoughts?". So I say... "oh what exactly, how are you by the way?". Then he starts on how he is, how he's not really done much of anything other than work. That he feels sort of lame because he's been drinking alone and playing warcraft a lot. Any way, eventually the convo slows down a bit so I log off for the night. He seems to be very curious about what's going on in my life, almost to the point of being nosey--but he hides it with politeness. He seemed to be dancing around showing interest in me, but never came out and said it. Could he be having second thoughts? I'm almost tempted to log on again today just to see if he says anything further or should I avoid him awhile longer?
lofi_tokyo Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 Keep avoiding him a bit. If he is having second thoughts, then don't give into them right away. Keep your distance until he makes his intentions more clear to you!
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