bklk1227 Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 Well, I posted here a loooong time ago. And after some pseudo reconciliations... I finally pushed for a separation and here I sit. Most of my stuff is gone, my two daughters are gone... but so is the uncertainty and there seemed to be no more destructive force in my life the last few years than uncertainty. I think I will just enjoy the silence right now... read some of the stories and advice the folks on here are posting... And tomorrow begin rebuilding my world. We'll see where it goes... BK
Mr. Lucky Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 my two daughters are gone... What's your plan for remaining a part of your daughters lives? My MC didn't like "rebuilding", she called it "re-imagining" . It's about being in control of the life you always saw yourself living as opposed to the helplessness that can be part of a failing marriage. Sounds like you're headed down that road. Good luck and keep us posted.... Mr. Lucky
BKLovesWho Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I understand where your coming from. I have given up. I married on the rebound. I've given up and took off my ring..... Best of Luck!
Geishawhelk Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 How old are your daughters....? Whatever you do, wherever they are, however you can, be part of their lives. Persist, persist, persist. Insist, Insist, insist.
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