DealingWDrama Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 Though I have not and will not send the following letter, I feel it is important to get this off of my chest: With every fiber of my being I grant you 10 fold the love, honor and trust that you have given to my marriage. May you find yourself in my shoes clinging to the vows you made whole heartedly an discover those vows to be 10 fold the element of mine. No relationship formed under the trusted protection of marriage will ever be fruitful - nations are still at odds because of the events that transpassed 2,000 years ago. May the tides of time calm your soul as the consequences of your actions touch your soul...Peace be unto your offspring...and may God protect them from the horror of your actions. I do not hate you - I hate what you have done...I hate that you have involved an innocent soul to be exposed to your selfishness. I hate that other innocent lives are effected by your negligence and self centered attitude. As time passes I pray that you will find the solice you need... As I press forward with my life, I leave the trails of your deciet behind me. I vow to not allow to affect my children, myself, or my marriage.... Will someone please pass the salt - it's time for a shot!
81West Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 I highly doubt this error ridden series of non-sequiters contains much honesty at all. That said, I'm truly sorry for your experience and hope that your are on the path to healing and fulfillment. Good luck with everything.
Author DealingWDrama Posted November 6, 2008 Author Posted November 6, 2008 81WEST I am 9 beers in...trust me...honesty is all over this. I will not send it because I am a classy chick, but I do feel it...it your own denial or situation reflects any part of my situation...may you be blessed with the same blessings.
sadintexas Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 Is that your thoughts toward OW or your husband? Seems to me the husband should be the recipient of these words.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 81WEST I am 9 beers in...trust me...honesty is all over this. I will not send it because I am a classy chick, but I do feel it...it your own denial or situation reflects any part of my situation...may you be blessed with the same blessings. :lmao: LOL, hope you have a better day tomorrow. While alcohol will numb you tonight, it won't help your feelings tomorrow unless you induldge once more. Not judging at all, BTDT will do it again until I get complete control over my emotions. It also leads to/exacerbates depression and anxiety. Enjoy your buzz and lamenting tonight. Your feelings are one hundred percent understandable. I wish you no hang over tomorrow! Good luck Drama!
wildsoul Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 Oh darlin, it's good you're just venting. That letter reads very cryptic, like a curse from an old hag pronouncing incantations over a cauldrin. Halloween is over. Turn back into your good-witch self again. Whatever happened with the pregnancy? Was she pregnant or not?
Author DealingWDrama Posted November 7, 2008 Author Posted November 7, 2008 Is that your thoughts toward OW or your husband? Seems to me the husband should be the recipient of these words. It is towards both of them...honestly more her than him...since he has admitted stuff and she is still clinging to the let's blame everything else in the world but myself ideals.
Author DealingWDrama Posted November 7, 2008 Author Posted November 7, 2008 Oh darlin, it's good you're just venting. That letter reads very cryptic, like a curse from an old hag pronouncing incantations over a cauldrin. Halloween is over. Turn back into your good-witch self again. Whatever happened with the pregnancy? Was she pregnant or not? I'm drunk and venting...goodness it is hard to type drunk...I still have no idea if she is knocked up or not...I have scene no proof of either...my lawyer cousin sent a letter about no contact that she will get tomorrow or got today....who knows. I will plan a stake out to see at her job...I need to sleep. hugs
81West Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 81WEST I am 9 beers in...trust me...honesty is all over this. I will not send it because I am a classy chick, but I do feel it...it your own denial or situation reflects any part of my situation...may you be blessed with the same blessings. OK! That explains it. DO NOT send this, under any beercumstances. You're babbling. This letter makes little sense, a statement which is in no way meant to be a reflection of the validity of your feelings. It may seem like I'm being mean, but I'm really not. I'm truly sorry for your heartbreak and the difficult decisions that have been thrust upon you by others.
wildsoul Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I still have no idea if she is knocked up or not... Un-freaking-real. She's just stretching out the torturous angst. When you told us about it before, I remember being flummoxed because it's incomprehesible to me that someone would fake something as important as a pregnancy. (It's still incomprehensible to me.) But I gotta say that my guess is that she isn't. Because if she WAS, you'd have been assaulted by a whole new level of threats and demands by now. Take an alka selter and I hope tomorrow is a better day for you!
NoIDidn't Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 81WEST I am 9 beers in...trust me...honesty is all over this. I will not send it because I am a classy chick, but I do feel it...it your own denial or situation reflects any part of my situation...may you be blessed with the same blessings. Boy do I remember doing this. I am so glad I didn't think to get near a computer then. Sober up. I am so sorry for your pain. ((dwd))
whichwayisup Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 I assume she wasn't pregnant? I can't remember the outcome of that.. Keep venting, it's good for you!
Author DealingWDrama Posted November 7, 2008 Author Posted November 7, 2008 I'm sober and have a mini headache - I finished off a complete 12 pack of beer by myself...I think I deserve a good old fashion "getter done" on that one. lol! I first want to apologize for my rant - perhaps that rant is what we all come in here fore...someone who halfway understands that pain, anger, and betrayal we have all felt whether we are the married to the person who hurt us or are the one at was with the married person. For the record, I still don't know if she's pregnant. I want to know...her work is a few hours drive away from where I live. I want to do a stake out and see for myself so I can at least find some kind of closure or sense of knowing for sure, but I don't want to seem like an obsessed crazy chick who is stalking someone.
frannie Posted November 7, 2008 Posted November 7, 2008 For the record, I still don't know if she's pregnant. I want to know...her work is a few hours drive away from where I live. I want to do a stake out and see for myself so I can at least find some kind of closure or sense of knowing for sure, but I don't want to seem like an obsessed crazy chick who is stalking someone. This may not be particularly brilliant advice, but personally I'd get a trusted, calm friend, and get them to take the drive with you and find out once and for all what's going on. Because this is driving you mad! I don't think it would be an 'obsessed crazy chick' thing to do, but then what the hell do I know?
OWoman Posted November 8, 2008 Posted November 8, 2008 I first want to apologize for my rant - perhaps that rant is what we all come in here fore...someone who halfway understands that pain, anger, and betrayal we have all felt whether we are the married to the person who hurt us or are the one at was with the married person. If ranting here stops doing something rash IRL, it's served a valuable purpose. (If it allows you pause to reflect on consequences before going ahead and doing it anyway, well, that's good too!) Hope the hangover pass soon...
TogetherForever Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 WOW ! I just read this whole thread & I'm wondering what has happened since??? TF
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