joeyku Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 i moved to arkansas from oregon just to get away from an ex, thats all said and done, im over her, i was finally happy with myself at work a girl came in and she was a friend of a friend of mine, she immediately took interest in me, and we started dating, she would not stop talking about me, she was first to tell me she loved me, we loved being with eachother but with her parents and stuff i could only see her once a week shes 17, senior in high school, plays basketball her friends and family promised me she wouldnt cheat on me or anything or hurt me out of the blue she calls me and tells me she doesnt feel for me in that way anymore and she doesnt want to be with me and im more like a brother i've been crying ever since, her friends dont even know what happened to her feelings, but nowadays shes already moved on and doesnt even care about me all i do is blame myself for this, maybe i joked around too much, or maybe i wasnt romantic enough... i dont know..
JooLee Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 how long was the relationship? and how old are you?
Author joeyku Posted November 9, 2008 Author Posted November 9, 2008 it was about 2 months, and im 19 but yea even her parents are on her about the breakup, why she did it, cuz they really looked up to me and still do, shes just off rebelling against everything or something... idk and i heard that she left me cuz i moved to fast (..?..) but anyways i'd like some help with some more replies if anyone cares...
Author joeyku Posted November 10, 2008 Author Posted November 10, 2008 can someone please talk to me?
Geishawhelk Posted November 10, 2008 Posted November 10, 2008 I'm not sure what constuctive comments anyone could really give you. The problem is, it's over. The problem is, you're not accepting it, letting go and moving on. And if you don't, then you won't be able to enter into any new relationships with a clean slate and a clear mind, and a heart ready to give and to receive. You have to be able to close the book on it, and put it down. Until you do - you'll never move on, and nothing will change, and nothing we say will help.
Author joeyku Posted November 11, 2008 Author Posted November 11, 2008 what do u think i can do to win her back at all?
EmperorR Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 what do u think i can do to win her back at all? No contact, yes it will hurt, contacting her wil just push her farther away.
Author joeyku Posted November 11, 2008 Author Posted November 11, 2008 thx man, thats what i've been doin yeah it hurts but i've been through this before, im damned suprised i've survived that... i can do it again, life does go on.. i got a decent job that pays well, i actually have some stability, so yeah i'll just move forward and build, no matter what happens
JooLee Posted November 11, 2008 Posted November 11, 2008 exactly do just that.. move forward.. it'll get better.
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