Aquarian66 Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 I was w/ my b/f for 1.5 yrs.I broke off w/ him b/c of distance and lack of communication.After I broke off w/ him I learned he was having an ONLINE r/s with a woman fr another country for 1.5 yrs too but they never met in person.When he learned that she sent an email to me telling me of her involvement w/ him, he dumped her.We were in NO CONTACT for 2-5 months but I can see he is always online as if waiting for me to make the first move. But I didnt for 2.5 mos.When OBAMA won as Pres.elect, I was overwhelmed that I left an offline message to him asking if he voted for OBAMA cuz I really like OBAMA too.My question:Below are his messages to me I need some clarification. Pls help me.. 1.Hello darling, yes I voted. How are you? 2.I miss you.Hope u are well and that we can talk soon 3. Are ur numbers still the same? Do u still LOVE ME? What will I say? What will I do? What exactly he meant by all of those messages?Of course I still care for him honestly.Thanx again.
justaman99 Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 What a great way to express an emotion such as love and desire. Over IM when the other person isn't there? Apologies to all the women out there but I would expect this from a teenage girl, not a guy really. I would ignore it. Since it's long distance the least he can do is try to express himself on the phone but then again, you broke up with him. How old are you two? -Just
Geishawhelk Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 Don't rise to the bait. It's provocative and designed to incite a response from you, to ensnare you into dialogue. It's manipulative. There are rules against that on this forum! Wouldn't it be great if we could implement them in out daily lives too....? Oh, wait a minute - we can!!
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