Mary3 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 May I say : You slept with him on the first night. He does not see this as a relationship. Perhaps a sexual relationship... He spends alot of time online talking to women and inviting them to live with him. He shushes up when you talk about the pretty roomate because he is likely boinking her. He will continue to shut up and boink her. Unless of course she boinked him and THEN he found out she had HIV,. Or perhaps she does NOT have HIV and its a LIE so you wont think they are sleeping together. Which either way , they likely are / or have... Dump !
Author wallflower77 Posted November 14, 2008 Author Posted November 14, 2008 Not the case if you read the previous post, but thanks for the advice. He actually said he didn't have a good relationship with the girl from the beginning because he thought she had to move based on a strange story and he suspected she was a pathalogical liar which turned out to be the case. Actually this has turned everything around, and now he is open to talking honestly and wants an exclusive relationship. He actually appreciated me being more honest about everything and told me never to keep anything bottled up anymore because he can't help me if I don't let him know what's going on. He told me that he thought that I just wanted it to be a sexual thing, but he's happy I want more because he does to. Sometimes things turn out for the better. I am still not going to move too fast into anything and may try dating other people until I know its very serious.
SoleMate Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 ...if both people want to commit to each other it happens, smoothly. There should be no need for awkward talks or e-mails. If he wants to commit to you, you shouldn't have to search and pry for positive signals... My thoughts exactly...thanks for doing the typing!! :-) I sense that you want commitment (and are unwilling to admit it), and I know for a FACT that he doesn't...that's the reality...please accept it. IMO, you're better off with a vibrator.
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