sunnyface Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 hi everyone I'm from Switzerland and I hop you don't mind my english not been perfect^^. I've run into a problem. A while back I got to know this really nice girl. We only spoke to each other a few times but not much more than that. Quite a while later (hadn't heard from her for a long time) we had a long chat over MSN and decided to go out dancing with some friend. I kinda fell in love with her but wasn't sure if she was the right one for me (I'm the kind of guy who has to be sure about a someone, i don't think anything of on-night relationships or things like that). So anway we went dancing and she brought along her sister. she was also very nice but I didn't think about her much at all. We chatted alot on MSn and saw each other a few times. I think we are now just good friends. Now last week I went to a concert with some friends and her sister was there as well. After everyone had gone I spent almost 3 hours just talking to her and now feel she is just about the most amazing person I've ever met. The thins she she talks about and the way she listens to waht I say just knocked me of my feet. Now my big problem is this. Do you think it's right for me to start dating her? or would this be unfair towards my friend. I really wouldn't want to hurt there feeling because they both mean alot to me. Should I talk to eiterh of them or just start going out with her sister? She's already hinted that she would like to meet me without others been around the whole evening. this whole mail may sound stupid. but I would never wan't either of these two wonderfull people to feel bad because of me. please tell me what you think. because I just can't work out what I should do. thank you all!
PrincessPeach Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 I think you can start to see her without their permission. But before things start getting to serious make sure you have their approval. I wouldn't ask for approval from your friends first because they might not think it's okay with them, but if they saw you two together it might not be how they thought and then might be okay with it. If they turn out not to be okay with it, then you can end it with her before anything real serious happens.
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