hd18 Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 I met a guy about a month ago and we immediately had crazy chemistry! We both felt it and had a great time hanging out. We both left the bar that night without exchanging numbers. I went back to the same bar recently and ran into him again. He was just as excited to see me as I was to see him. He told me he'd thought i'd never be back there again. We ended up talking and flirting most of the night again and again such strong chemistry. He said we should go out sometime and asked for my number. But I did end up getting pretty drunk that night and feel like I may have came on a lil too strong. I just feel like I may have acted a lil too into him once I got tipsy and I'm afraid that I turned him off by getting maybe getting a little too touchy feely. Its been a week and he still hasn't called me. How should I act if I see him again since he didn't call? Should I act like I'm still interested in him or not? I would really like to get to know him still. If he was as attracted to me and as into me I think he was would he completely become not interested because I got a lil tipsy and came on too strong? And if I did turn him off by the way I acted how do I get him interested again?? Please give me some advice!! Thank you.
2sure Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 lol. Yep. Probably your tipsy behavior has made him hesitate. But perhaps all is not lost. The next time you see him , act happy to see him, do not mention your phone number or the lack of a call. Do not get drunk. If someone offers to buy you a drink, within his hearing, say laughingly "No thanks, I get a little toooo happy when I drink too much, and I'm happy enough sober." Leave it at that, maybe he will reconsider and give you another shot.
jwi71 Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 Maybe he lost your number? Maybe he's nervous. I would disagree with 2sure here...I'd ask him in a playful way why he didn't call should you see him again. Basically, the facts are: 1) You met a guy and have great chemistry (twice) 2) You gave him your number 3) He hasn't called. Those are the facts. Anything else is conjecture. And, um, don't worry about getting tipsy. You were in a bar after all! Good luck...stay positive!
sultry33 Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 Maybe he lost your number? Maybe he's nervous. I would disagree with 2sure here...I'd ask him in a playful way why he didn't call should you see him again. Basically, the facts are: 1) You met a guy and have great chemistry (twice) 2) You gave him your number 3) He hasn't called. Those are the facts. Anything else is conjecture. And, um, don't worry about getting tipsy. You were in a bar after all! Good luck...stay positive! yep agree have fun and dont worry .. sure he has been tipsy at least once in his life i always say i cant drink much or im nervous;)
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