confusedandempty Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 Hey everyone - My best friend works in a fancy restaurant in our city. About 2 months ago, a new girl started to work at the place. About 4-5 weeks ago I was at the place, sitting at the bar and had a talk with her. It was really nice and she seemed like a nice charming girl. I was all alone that evening, so I left the place after few drinks to meet my friends, no reason dwelling too long when she was working anyway. The weekend after this, I met her for a coincidence at a club in our city. She was partying with my best friends girlfriend (the same friend who works with her) and she came to me and we had a short talk. Later in the evening, we both had gotten wasted and we were dancing really tight. She was even holding my hand when she dragged me to the bar. We danced a little bit more - but I didn't do anything that evening. We have met few times while partying since the first time we met and it is always the same things. We're quite flirty, we dance tight, hold hands, she compliments my shirt (which is awesome btw!), and we dance more. Yet I always fail do to finish the deal! This has happened 2-3 times since the first night and I'm afraid that she might soon start to lose interest. Last weekend started like the previous weekends. Except we were all dressed up in our halloween costumes and drinking at a club we both like. However, I was celebrating my friends birthday and she was drinking with her friends. We soon left (me and my friends) to another club - as I didn't wanna party with her early in the night (road to friend zone). Later in the evening, when everything was closed I met her on the street. We were both drunk, but she had lost her jacked and was wet, cold and was wearing nothing but her slutty cop costume. So I asked if she wanted to join me to an after party at my friends place, which was only 2 minutes away. She smiled and said "let's go". We drank a little bit more there, until we sat down in a couch completely wasted (I know ... excellent makeout opportunity). We both passed out few minutes later laying in the couch. There were about 10-15 persons in the party. Normally when I go to an afterparty I leave as soon as I wake up. That was the case with most people. Everybody had left except from me, her and 2 of my friends who were in other bedroom. I noticed that she woke up and went to the toilet, and then she came back and crawled under our blanket and wanted to watch a movie and order a pizza at 1pm!. So that we did. Obviously she liked to be there with me - otherwise she would have left when she woke up. My problem is that I'm starting to like this girl really much and that is the red alert for me. Usually I have no problems with going home with women, but when I start to like them, everything becomes 50 times more difficult. So I ask you guys and girls .. what would you do in my position?? How much time do I have left? And why does this happen to me every time I meet a girl that I actually like?? Thank you all!
Capper Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 Probebly about 15mins and 32 secs give or take. All I can say is bite the bullet and ask her out
carhill Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 Ask her out immediately and stop drinking until you "pass out".
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