Mazda28 Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 My ex was basically a commitment phobe. He thought he wanted marriage the whole deal whatever. We moved in together and he changed his mind and didn't even have the guts to break up with me in person he did it over the phone. Anyway, it has been a year since I've heard from him etc. Except for seeing him at a store back in August(no speaking involved). Well out of the blue I get this friendly email from him at 8:30 in the morning. Asking how I am am and to write back when I get a chance. I'm clueless to guy's minds and want to know why after an ENTIRE year you contact someone out of the blue. Makes no sense...you made your bed now lie in it.
BikerBeagle Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 A year is not so long a time ...once it's over. Maybe he's recently broke up with someone and started thinking about you again ...maybe he just wants to reconnect to see how you are doing ...lots of possibilities. It doesn't sound like you are interested in contacting him, so good for you.
Author Mazda28 Posted November 5, 2008 Author Posted November 5, 2008 I just find it has to have some alterior motive. He decided out of the blue to end it and told me to "move on". He was dead set on this, so to contact me randomly makes me cautious as to why he's chose to intiate any contact now. I'd like to see what he has to say, but honestly I've been there done that with him.
sedgwick Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 I'd just say to ignore it, but if you want to respond and tell him you're sorry, but you've moved on like he asked, go for it.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 5, 2008 Posted November 5, 2008 Haha I agree entirely with Sedgwick. You've moved on so thats great, no need to reply. But, if you want to remind him you've moved on as asked... well I think thats great too.
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