AshbyOdonnis Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 This guy and I started hanging out and really getting to know each other the summer of 2007. He had a rep for being a "player" but he ssaid he was over it and assured me it was fine.. so i kept going along with him.. however he still liked his ex and start tagging along with this other girl.. he ended up asking me out so i thought hes tamed himself (haha) but then he continuously wanted to break up.. so we finally did and he started talking to this new girl who he told me he would never have ANY relations with but ended up taking her virginity... i was absolutely devastated. After about a month we had still been on "loving" terms. by then he told me he couldnt live without me and he wanted me and only me. He also said he was in love with me.. so we started dating again. I still heard rumors alot about the two of them but he said that it was B.S. Since the beginning of the Summer of 08 he always told me I was like "one" and he wanted to marry me and that I changed his life. He said i hcanged his ways. well not only did he have commitment problems he also is very violent and smokes too much and is very disrespectful. but despite all his flaws hes the most charming and funniest people ive ever met and i truly do love him. He makes me better. I just recently broke up with him and hes begging for me back and is saying he will do ANYTHING for me.. I need help because i have no idea what i should do..
PrincessPeach Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 He doesn't sound like that great of a guy. Don't let his charm fool you. He is probably fooling around with another girl on the side or just keeping you around until he finds someone better. he can't possibly mean that he thinks you are the one and that he wants to marry you so quickly after knowing you. If he falls in love that fast, then he can fall out of love that fast and find someone else just as quickly. If you stick around I think you are just going to get hurt. Save your heart for someone better, don't take him back. You deserve better than him.
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