Sas83 Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 Hi there, i'm new to this site, not sure if this is the right place to post this but here goes:: I met my current b/f 2 years ago, he was just going through a rather bitter divorce after being married for 3 years (no kids) and i had left my childrens(2) dad after an 8 year relationship. We both felt it was love at first sight, everything about us just clicked it was amazing. we were seeing each other for about 3 months before i introduced him to the kids (more so my daughter as my son was only 6 months) we have so much in common and family and friends always comment on how perfect we are for each other and how wonderful he is with the kids. We both have our own houses, mines rented his is bought. I feel i want to take our relationship abit further and live together. He says he does also but to be honest when we talk about it he doesnt seem as keen at all. and always seems to find little excuses and putting things off. I dont want to feel like i am forcing myself and the kids on him but thats how it seems. I soooo wanted him to sell the house and move in with me and see how it goes, as this was the house he bought with his ex wife i always felt abit funny about being there but the house has been completely stripped out and changed since she was there and tbh she wasnt there very long anyway. but it kinda makes no sense as his house is bigger and closer to my work ... not to mention its in a really fab area with a great school. and this bloody credit crunch thing going on its just a crap time for buying and selling houses. I just get the feeling i'm pushing him into it but i miss him when he's not there, we dont see each other every night . he comes round on a wednesday night from about 8 till 11 and he stays over on firday night, i stay at his on a saturday night and then he pops round on a sunday night. we're always on the phone and seem to never be out of contact which is fine. I just feel quite lonely when i go up to my bed myself every other night. what a sob story any advice would be good? or just the sympathy vote... what ever you fancy! lol
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