Holding-On Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 AmyBeth, I would suggest you go www.survivinginfidelity.com if you haven't already. That is a website devoted to what you are looking for.
SierraRose Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 Later she even sent me a package that contained sex toys, pictures, cards from her professing her love. OK, she sounds nuts...who sends sex toys. I don't care how long they were together, she sounds pathetic. MM or not, you breakup--it's over---especially after several months. UNLESS, your H is still incontact with her. That would totally justify the cookies, the mail, etc... She may just want to proove to you it isn't over. ME? I'd sit BOTH their a$$es down, at the same time, in a public place and let the interrogations begin!
SierraRose Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 One more thing..why would she have cards from herself professing her love to him...
Author Amybeth Posted January 26, 2009 Author Posted January 26, 2009 One more thing..why would she have cards from herself professing her love to him... She sent me the cards that he left at her house that were from her. The good thing to me was that in that box she sent me nothing in there was from my husband professing his love to her. One card from her that was stating "love" from her - she even wrote in it - "please don't get angry". She has totally stopped contacting him - she had an emotionally and mildly physically abusive relationship before so I think she fell in love with my husband because she NEVER had someone treat her with any decency. My husband does not want to loose me, his sons, our house or anything - I truely believe he would not risk contacting her even once. If he did she would forward the text to me (she knows my email and sent me email in the past 1x). Her goal was to break us up - my husband knows this and knows she would use anything against him - to hurt him and to get to me. I think she finally realizes things are over between them and is moving on with her life (after she tried for months to get him to see her - I saw lots of emails from her stating how she is upset he was not seeing her).
NoIDidn't Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Later she even sent me a package that contained sex toys, pictures, cards from her professing her love. OK, she sounds nuts...who sends sex toys. I don't care how long they were together, she sounds pathetic. MM or not, you breakup--it's over---especially after several months. UNLESS, your H is still incontact with her. That would totally justify the cookies, the mail, etc... She may just want to proove to you it isn't over. ME? I'd sit BOTH their a$$es down, at the same time, in a public place and let the interrogations begin! Who sends sex toys? Only the kind of nasty and hurtful person that wants to throw in your face that they were having sex with your spouse. They want you to see how "kinky" and "great" and "mindblowing" it was. This is a very sick woman. I am not letting the husband off the hook as he help "Create" this monstrosity. But she has probably opened his eyes to how his lies affected her. That and he probably can't believe that she is behaving in this way. Who sends sex toys, indeed. I would NEVER sink to that level. The day that I have "prove" that I had sex with ANY man in this way, married or not, will be the day that I check myself in to a mental institution.
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