markyboy1983 Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I broke the NC rule yesterday and hung out at my ex's house with her. I'm pissed at my self already. We got all touchy and feely, not sex, but laying 2gether and spooning, and all that crap you should not do with an ex. Bottom line - and this is my question - My ex has an eating disorder. She took about 40 laxitive pills over the course of about 3 days (She started about 6 days ago and stopped about 2 days ago) and her stomach was killing her when i saw her. Her pain kept coming and going about every 5 minutes. Oh yeah, she also hasn't been eating since she started taking the pills, except for tiny snacks here and there. I am trying to keep the NC rule going, but I don't know what to do, because I feel her health might be in jeopardy. My gut tells me that she is going to be OK with this pill situation, but I would feel like crap if something happened to her because of her taking these pills, telling me she was in pain, and not doing anything about it. I do not want to contact her family because they are in the dark about her disorder. What do I do? PS I also know that she told me she only took about 40 (like thats not too many already), but my brother was an alcoholic and my psychologist once told me that an addict will never tell u exactly how much they are drinking. I have a feeling she probably took more that what she told me.
Ruby Slippers Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 In this case, I would err on the side of safety and check on her.
Author markyboy1983 Posted November 3, 2008 Author Posted November 3, 2008 Broke the rule for obvious reasons. She said she went to the doctor and he said she had a fractured rib. I kept it short and sweet and a I feel better for not knowing how she got it. I kind of feel like the NC rule wasn't broken. She'll be OK, just like I will be.
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