pelicanpreacher Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Your friend seems like he confused your invitation for friendship to include " What's your is mine..." and "Su Casa Es Mi Casa" as his mantras in a one sided greedfest to have all that you have. Has this individual always expected you to share your good fortune with him and what have you gotten from this friendship to speak of? As to your wife, what would make her feel inclined to get so close to a friend or associate of yours that an affair could even be possible in the first place? You noted that you've taken a trip out of town. Did your wife go with you?
mental_traveller Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 You say the other guy has been part of your life for years. In that case, it's quite likely the affair has gone on for years. Do not presume it is just a tryst over a few weeks or months. This may have started within a short while of your wife meeting this guy, all those years back.
Untouchable_Fire Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 So it's been a few weeks. I've gone to one counseling session, got another this week. Wife wants to come with to the next one - I'm all for that. Things going generally well - getting out of town was good - I managed to gain a few pounds, so apparently my appetite hasn't gone away! One day at a time... I'm not sure how you could trust someone like that again. You should probably just go through the motions to make the divorce easier on yourself. You don' t have to sell the house right now. Split the payment now, and then the profit when value returns and it can be sold. I'm sorry you opened yourself to this. Let this be a lesson that trust comes only with verification. Never trust a wife blindly!
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