xcazx Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 Hiya everyone I'm new to this so your have to be patient with me lol Well me and my ex were going out for 4 years but earlier this year he dumped me but before he dumped me he started acting funny by not having his phone on and taking his phone with him everywhere he went and i found messages to an older lady (36 with 3 kids) i found out by his sister that he had started going out with her after we have broken up (1 month after) i deleted him as a friend from my facebook but over the last 4 months iv realised i can do much better than him and i have my whole life ahead of me and im free to do what i won't not what he won'ts, well anyway he has recently become depressed now i didn't know this until yesterday evening when his sister told me, apparently the 36 year old dumped him because she didn't won't a serious relationship and she just won'ts to have 3 somes and date other men, now this has upset him a great deal (what goes around comes around) like it did me when he dumped me, he has started smoking and drinking alot more and he never ever confides in his family anymore like he used to all the time, i don't won't him back i am concerned about him and more so his family, is there anything you can think of that i can put into a letter to explain to him that i am here for him as a friend not an ex and nothing he will say will get back to his sister or mum, we always said we would stay friends but we havn't made contact, i feel i have moved on enough to forgive him for what he did to me and i would really like to help get him back on the right track but how do i do this in a letter without it sounding like i won't to get back with him? thank you everyone xcx
Recommended Posts