BCCA Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I'll try and make this as short as I can: I went out with some friends Friday night for Halloween. We ended up meeting up with some other people that someone knew, one of them being a cute young girl that I chatted up a bit. After talking a bit, we realized that we live in the same part of town, and she mentione being comute buddies/meeting up for happy hour. As the night went on, we got split up, and I never got a chance to get her number or anything. There wasn't really a convenient way to go about getting it before, we were in loud bars/cabs with other people and it didnt seem like the time. So, my only real way to get ahold of her is to add her on facebook and send her a message. The chances of us crossing paths naturally again is pretty close to nill, seeing as she was a friend of a friend, and I've never seen her before. Would it be weird if I went to added her on facebook, and if she accepted, strike up a conversation there? She seemed interested, and I overheard her telling someone else I was a cool guy (we were all a little buzzed by the end and people were talking louder than they intended to). What do you think?
SM82 Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I would be flattered that a guy took the time to find me on facebook in order to get in contact with me again!!!! Just be sure to add a little note reminding her how you met.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I would be flattered that a guy took the time to find me on facebook in order to get in contact with me again!!!! Just be sure to add a little note reminding her how you met. Agreed. That's all I had to say, but my messages was "too short."
Author BCCA Posted November 3, 2008 Author Posted November 3, 2008 Agreed. That's all I had to say, but my messages was "too short." Ok, I sent the add request...wish me luck
Author BCCA Posted November 3, 2008 Author Posted November 3, 2008 Ok, so she accepted it pretty quickly, but I dont want to send her a message right off the bat. Should I wait until later today?
CaliGuy Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 Ok, so she accepted it pretty quickly, but I dont want to send her a message right off the bat. Should I wait until later today? Don't play games with her! LOL. Just be confident but not needy, ya know? It's ok to send her a message. Just make sure you don't obsesses or talk too much right off the bat. Think balance! You're a busy, working guy. Get to her as you have the time but don't go out of your way.
edrodr Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 dooEETTT On the side note: Hey come back to my thread and help me out a little lol! Been waiting for a replay from you! Pss over here..
Author BCCA Posted November 3, 2008 Author Posted November 3, 2008 Don't play games with her! LOL. Just be confident but not needy, ya know? It's ok to send her a message. Just make sure you don't obsesses or talk too much right off the bat. Think balance! You're a busy, working guy. Get to her as you have the time but don't go out of your way. Thanks, bro. I was thinking the same thing, but needed a push in the right direction. Sometimes, all of this is still confusing, but what can you do... edrodr, I made a comment in there. PM me if you need to.
Author BCCA Posted November 6, 2008 Author Posted November 6, 2008 Update, we talked on FB a bit back and forth, and are meeting up tomorrow. So far, everything is going pretty well! Thanks for all the advice!
sultry33 Posted November 6, 2008 Posted November 6, 2008 Update, we talked on FB a bit back and forth, and are meeting up tomorrow. So far, everything is going pretty well! Thanks for all the advice! its all good hope you have a good date
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