cotinara Posted November 2, 2008 Posted November 2, 2008 I know this guy who goes to my school. We have talked in school and when we see each other out on the town we talk. This Friday we were out, he bought me a drink and then heard my drunk friend say "you should kiss him" he heard it and i totally blushed. Later i went up to him and asked him if i could kiss him. He said yes. I initiated and when we stopped he came in for more. so long story short. does he think less of me that i was so forward to ask for a kiss, considering we have never been on a date or anything? gosh i feel so weird that i would/did do that. thanks
Dark-N-Romantic Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I personally would not see that as weird or too foward. I personally would find it a relief because I would not know what to do. Or when it was safe to make the right moves. I even ask a women before I enter her if it is okay. And unless he starts acting weird or says something against it, then don't worry about it. DNR New love, it is so beautiful.
monkey00 Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 There's nothing wrong with that. I've never had a girl with the balls like that to ask me. And if the case ever came up where I liked the girl or if she was hot, it would be an absolute yes.
flc Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I think it shows you are confident and know what you want. If I was the guy I would love it as there is no longer any guess work on how you feel about me. Confidence is attractive in both men and women.
carhill Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 does he think less of me that i was so forward to ask for a kiss, considering we have never been on a date or anything? Guess you're going to have to kiss him again to find out
Harodan Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 He won't think less of you. If you do this for everyone else, maybe, but the fact that you did this for him shows that you are secure in how you feel towards him. I just wish I knew a girl that was this clear about her feelings towards me. You have separated from a standard which I find very irritating about many girls. You are clear about your feelings, and that is something extremely cool- The girls I deal with hide their feelings as if they were hideous scars. They make it into a guessing game where if you guess wrong, you lose a friend. I commend you for your method.
Vertex Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 It would make things ten times easier in terms of making the next move, lol. That'd be great.
Author cotinara Posted November 4, 2008 Author Posted November 4, 2008 wow. i am glad you all don't see it as coming off too forward. My friend thought it was (thinks its the dudes job to initiate the kiss or relationship). But I take my hat of to you guys who have to deal with initiating this kind of stuff. Its nerve wrecking. Also the whole will it or won't it go anywhere. So kudos to ya'll. I felt silly to ask but i didn't want to get physically rejected if i just kissed him. I just felt that the flirting that we had done at least that nite, and the compliments he gave me and me wanting to kiss him added up. Akward that i haven't got to know him more before i did go in for a kiss, but cest la vie. Im curious to see what happens. I honestly don't think anything will come of it but i enjoyed my moment of having cajones. the ball is in his court. THANK YOU!!
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