Author sigh Posted November 3, 2008 Author Posted November 3, 2008 You know, he once said to me that if he was single I would not want him. Maybe he was right. I wonder if I would have put up with crap from a single guy
jj33 Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 Trust me you would not have. We make up all sorts of excuses for these guys because they are married. If only he was single then everything would be perfect he would never xyz if he were single. But we dont know that. People behave the way they behave. And barring certain very stressful times when everyone behaves differently than you might expect, people typically are who they are. its just that when they are single there is no great excuse for why they are not behaving properly. You did good Sigh. Now you can use your website in peace. And he wont think you are unstable. He will know that you have called game over. That you are no longer interested in the cat and mouse game he wants you to play.
Dark-N-Romantic Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 How have you been? I hope things are looking up for you and you are finding the healing you need. DNR
Author sigh Posted November 4, 2008 Author Posted November 4, 2008 How have you been? I hope things are looking up for you and you are finding the healing you need. DNR I am hanging in The phases are mind blowing and I am only on day 2 of strict NC. I go from really sad, to the point where I have physical pains, to extremely angry where I just hope that karma is real and he feels some of this pain one day. Thank you for thinking of me
pkn06002 Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 I am hanging in The phases are mind blowing and I am only on day 2 of strict NC. I go from really sad, to the point where I have physical pains, to extremely angry where I just hope that karma is real and he feels some of this pain one day. Thank you for thinking of me Well it does get better. At times that anger can really help, it did get me through a few days that were particularly bad.
Dark-N-Romantic Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 I am hanging in The phases are mind blowing and I am only on day 2 of strict NC. I go from really sad, to the point where I have physical pains, to extremely angry where I just hope that karma is real and he feels some of this pain one day. Thank you for thinking of me Your welcome. And don't worry about Karma for him. He isn't worth your time. Do you hang out with friends and family when you get really down? Or a distractor in your life? For me I like to find downloads for the 3D graphics program I use. Or I research laws or interesting news stories. Maybe a new hobby might work too. Well stay in there kiddo. You are going to be fine. Trust me, I hurted for a real long time when I and the woman I thought I was going to marry broke up. It is going to take some time and once in a while you'll have flashbacks. But, it will be easier and you will be more than ready to find that person to replace those memories with. DNR If you want, I can check in on you if you once in a while.
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