nyr81 Posted November 2, 2008 Posted November 2, 2008 So a went out with this girl a few months ago..had a great time..things were going well, but she decided she wanted to just be friends. She said she felt awkward that I was teaching in the school she was student teaching in and she said she felt uncomfortable with the situation and didnt want people to know we were dating. Thought maybe it would hurt her chances at getting a job next year. Anyway, we stay in touch often, at least 3 days a week. And now she is student teaching in another school district to finish up. Do you think I should ask her if she wants to try dating again, or should I let it be? I mean i think the interest is still there.
SM82 Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 I guess it couldn't hurt to contact her. You could always play it off like you're wondering how her new school is going and if you wanted to get together... Good luck!
D-Lish Posted November 3, 2008 Posted November 3, 2008 What is your contact like when you have contact currently? I am not sure what it is like for other women, but when I genuinely like someone, I don't put things off. It's probably important to clarify whether or not she has friend-zoned you or not. The only way to do that is to ask her what is going on.
PrincessPeach Posted November 4, 2008 Posted November 4, 2008 I'd say ask her out again, though don't mention that it's because a change of circumstances. Catch up over something fun/active that you like to do. If she enjoys it to you might spark something, if not, at least you had fun. It sounds to me like she might have been letting you down easy. if she doesn't seem interested after this next time around, or if she doesn't committ to any get-together, it'd be best to just move on. Plenty of other good girls out there.
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