jkow92 Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 So me and this girl met around this time last year. I started calling her my heroine and she fell for me pretty hard. i broke up with her a few days later got back. so on about 3 times. I finally took her back around december of last year. We have ran strong but i cheated on her, my ex came back and i slept with her. But it was only like a 1 min quicky LITERALLY. After that she forgave me. This was about in april that happened. Than in june i went to the movies as friends with this girl she hates but was a good friend of mine. The next day we went to a party together. The girl she didnt like started talking me into drinking. So i did, i tried to hook p with her. (bad news) But than she forgave me again! lately through about the last month she hasnt been able to talk to me. (only 16 has grounding.) But we still found ways. I let her use a phone i would come to visit her. O yea i forgot i moved in july now i live in a diff city. But she was still my love. Than about a week ago she took me back. I went to her house spent the night. Next day i was getting pushy saying let me come over again. She said no i pissed her off by following her to her dads car. The next day i saw her at school and she only said we just need a little time..... 1 hour later im sittin in a park and im getting these crazy messages saying leave me alone i dont want to talk to you or see you ever again its over for good!! Idk what to do now. The last few days i have tried to talk to her. I know she wont go to another guy, shes not like that. She is just upset. She has givin me over 10 chances. But the one time im serious she wont come back. I was way to controlling. Now i know it and she wont even talk to me... I try to call she ignores and says leave me alone...... Idk what the hell to do! i know she loves me. I just want to be back with her by nov 14th. That is our 1 year.
Geishawhelk Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 Kiss it goodbye. It's not your year. Sorry to say this, but you keep yanking her chain the way you have been, and why should she take you back? Being in a Relationship, means being faithful, and being sensible. You don't say how old you are, but even if you're only a couple of years older than she is (max) I'm afraid, biologically, she still has the 'maturity' edge over you. Quit being a jerk, and vow that the next girl you hook up with (because this one is dead and going nowhere!) you'll be a little more responsible.
Author jkow92 Posted November 1, 2008 Author Posted November 1, 2008 Kiss it goodbye. It's not your year. Sorry to say this, but you keep yanking her chain the way you have been, and why should she take you back? Being in a Relationship, means being faithful, and being sensible. You don't say how old you are, but even if you're only a couple of years older than she is (max) I'm afraid, biologically, she still has the 'maturity' edge over you. Quit being a jerk, and vow that the next girl you hook up with (because this one is dead and going nowhere!) you'll be a little more responsible. well see thats the thing. She loves me to death. She has already done so much for me and i have treated her a lot better than it seems. There has just been some mix up. I love her to death and she still does love me she is just afraid that i am gonna controll her again...... Im 16 and she is 16
Author jkow92 Posted November 1, 2008 Author Posted November 1, 2008 Kiss it goodbye. It's not your year. Sorry to say this, but you keep yanking her chain the way you have been, and why should she take you back? Being in a Relationship, means being faithful, and being sensible. You don't say how old you are, but even if you're only a couple of years older than she is (max) I'm afraid, biologically, she still has the 'maturity' edge over you. Quit being a jerk, and vow that the next girl you hook up with (because this one is dead and going nowhere!) you'll be a little more responsible. like i mean. I seiously love her. I know i do. we have this amazing future planned. Its just falling apart right now because i was to controlling and she thinks thats gonna happen again.. Btw she lost her virginity to me. She said i would be her first and only and she wanted to marry the guy it happened to.... I know she wont put out to anyone else. I just want her back.
Geishawhelk Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 You are waaaaaaaay too young to even be thinking about drinking, sex and this relationship lasting for ever! She has told you to go and leave her alone, I guess you should respect her and do that. Look, I know this seems really serious to you now, but trust me, in a couple of years, you're going to look back on this and But I'm serious about the being faithful. No matter how old you are, being faithful and not being a jerk are very important. If you want to be taken seriously, that is.
milkshake Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 i think in her giving u all of these second chances u lost a little respect for her and u pushed and pushed to c how far u cud go if u really love her u will give her some space and time.that way she may see that u respect her wishes. i wouldnt rush this. its hard to know if she'll take u back.. as much as us girls like a bad boy on the surface, what we really want is trust, respect, understanding and love. but respect is the most important one.
MichiganMan222 Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 Something about women...it doesn't matter how much they love you; if the relationship is extremely painful and toxic to them, they eventually muster up the courage to end it DESPITE loving you. Very painful process for them I'm sure, but once they climb that mountain, they ain't coming down for anything. Write her off. You messed with her too many times and she dropped the hammer on you for good. Learn a lesson for the next one.
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