markyboy1983 Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 So I made the mistake of looking up her friend's profile on myspace - I didn''t do it throughout our 2 year relationship cuz i didn't feel i had to - and I saw IT!!!!!! She cheated on me twice. F***en TWICE! This is my second day of NC and I was doing great until I got off of work and saw the pics. When I first saw them about a 1/2 hour ago, I wanted to break the NC and call her, but what would that do? If I truly want her out of my life, then I won't call her (and tell her how much I hope she dies!!!!) - sorry, just venting a little bit. In all honesty it hurts bad, but i'm not gonna let her know it. I have one piece of advice for everyone in this forum : If you feel like breaking the NC rule, don't. Wait a few days/weeks (Trust me I know it's so hard) and if u still feel the same way, then break it. Like I said before, I want to call her so bad and tell her how much of a wh*** she is, but i'm gonna wait. I know in a few days i will be glad with my decision not to call her now. PS - watching the wedding singer - as a guy - really made me laugh. When he was singing "Holiday," I so so know what he was feeling, as do most of us in here.
EmperorR Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 been there done it, my ex cheated on me, msg me on what would have been our 3 year anniversary, me like a dumbass checks her facebook and notices shes is dating someone new. I got over it fast thought, but I'll never break it again. And I agree with wait a few days, I feel like calling my ex and calling her every name in the book, I didn't before and just kept my composure, I feel sorry for her new guy has no idea what he got into.
Author markyboy1983 Posted November 1, 2008 Author Posted November 1, 2008 didn't keep my promise and let my emotions get the best of me... and called her and told her off. I actually feel better because I got the rest of her crap out of my house. I dropped it off on her stoop and left. She blamed me for everything, i have no clue how her cheating was my fault, but now that I think about it, it is my fault. I should have left her months ago. Good Riddence.
CaliGuy Posted November 2, 2008 Posted November 2, 2008 didn't keep my promise and let my emotions get the best of me... and called her and told her off. I actually feel better because I got the rest of her crap out of my house. I dropped it off on her stoop and left. She blamed me for everything, i have no clue how her cheating was my fault, but now that I think about it, it is my fault. I should have left her months ago. Good Riddence. Cheaters are good at that. They blame US for everything. Funny how that works eh?....
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