juliemanooli Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 My ex broke up with me unexpectedly because he "lost passion", even though he showed no signals of boredom whatsoever. I was happy, and i thought he was too. Guess I was wrong. Throughout our whole relationship, we never fought. Ever. And if we did, it was about plans, or something that was really stupid. nothing serious. But ever since we've broken up.. All we do is fight. Dont get me wrong, I've been doing the whole NC thing. But recently he's contacted me, but only to let me know that he's pissed off. We've argued more now then when we did while dating. I heard from my friends that he would go on a rant about how "annoying and stupid i am" and "how much he dislikes me", even though i havent said anything to him. What is he doing? Why is he being so mean all of a sudden? He got mad at me for what I wore to a game (he said i was asking to get raped. not true), for being friends with his friends (even though i treat them the same as when i did while we dated), and other stupid things. Why does he still care so much about what I do? Even though he's mean, I still catch him staring at me, asking about me, and i even found out he still keeps this note i wrote to him in his wallet. I still want to be with him. But i dont want him to know that. Ever since our last argument, i wanted to make it clear that I never want to talk to him ever again. Even though thats opposite of how i feel. I just wanna show him i can live without him, and maybe he'd come running back. Somebody tell me what he's thinking? Does he still care? or am i just overanalyzing?
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