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I have had this in my mind for a long time now. I am afraid to admit it, as I can seem strong and independent and tough as nails to the outside world, but I have been thinking I really want to find some means of meeting new people. I have many friends and a very busy social life, in that I am happy, but I have determined I am not going to meet anyone if I stay within this circle - because everyone is a confirmed bachelor or crazy cat lady.

 

So here's my question : How do you get out and meet people? Places to go or things to see, I need some suggestions. Maybe I'm just not doing the right things. I'm tired of getting burned from so called bad boys as well as nice guys. You find out that some who describe themselves as "nice guys" are really just wolves in sheep's clothing, and sometimes "bad boys" aren't really bad but more like cowards. What to do? I have a hard working, dedicated spirit, but I won't give up because giving up is for wimps. Any suggestions?

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"First you have to give up, first you have to *know*... not fear... *know*... that someday you're gonna die."

 

Does that help? Probably not...

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I have had this in my mind for a long time now. I am afraid to admit it, as I can seem strong and independent and tough as nails to the outside world, but I have been thinking I really want to find some means of meeting new people. I have many friends and a very busy social life, in that I am happy, but I have determined I am not going to meet anyone if I stay within this circle - because everyone is a confirmed bachelor or crazy cat lady.

 

So here's my question : How do you get out and meet people? Places to go or things to see, I need some suggestions. Maybe I'm just not doing the right things. I'm tired of getting burned from so called bad boys as well as nice guys. You find out that some who describe themselves as "nice guys" are really just wolves in sheep's clothing, and sometimes "bad boys" aren't really bad but more like cowards. What to do? I have a hard working, dedicated spirit, but I won't give up because giving up is for wimps. Any suggestions?

 

When you go somewhere, like let's say a bookstore, and you find some guy looking around in the same section that you are in, just mingle with him. Striking up a small conversation is an easy way to meet people. Also, if you're feeling a little adventurous, you could try going to cultural festivals or comic/anime conventions.

 

It's too bad that most guys are fakes these days but you know what we only have society to blame and complaining ain't gonna do ****. So what to do? Nothing. Just continue to live your life, be real, and hopefully you'll meet a GOOD guy.

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