sj9ers Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 So me and my ex were together for 2 months and my she dumped me almost two months ago because she wasn't sure if she wanted me as a a friend or a boyfriend and told one of other mutual friends our friendship might develop into something later. Well we were no contact for about a month and a half upon her request but I decided to email her anyway after a month and a half to clear the air. I told her that we might have rushed into things before we got to know each other more and that maybe we should just be friends and she replied that she did want to be friends. Anyway she initiated contact a week later sending me pictures of us together hugging and stuff and started asking me how I've been. So we emailed each other back a few times and things were going well so I asked her if she wanted to hangout last Saturday with our mutual friends at a corn maze she agreed. So I picked her up and things were fine, but then when we got there I just got nervous and shut down I guess because everyone was there and things got awkward. She tried to talk to me, but I was really quiet and didn't say much, and everybody else was trying to talk to her and me as well so it was just a bad situation. Later I had to take her home and in the car I tried to talk to her, but i just started mumbling so I was quiet for the rest of the ride and dropped her off. She gave me a hug and said thanks and I said I would talk to her later. Looking back I should have just asked her to lunch or something else first with just me and her instead of hanging out with everyone just to see how things were. I wanted to talk to her that night, but it was just that everyone was there and I didn't know how to act because I wasn't her bf anymore and I really wasn't acting like myself with her that night. I wanna make it up to her and try again by asking her to grab something to eat sometime this week to catchup because we really didn't get a chance to talk last time. I was wondering when I talk to her and ask her to lunch should I explain why I was acting weird the last time we hung out and apologize or should I just pretend like it never happened? Thanks
torranceshipman Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 I'd just email and say a casual, hey want to catch up over lunch next week sometime, was hard to catch up properly when there were so many of us the other night! Then if you 2 have a good time at lunch she'll forget your off behavior at the corn maze pretty quick. If shes a perceptive girl, tho, she may have known why you felt awkward and was nice enough not to say anythin as she knows you're still struggling with your feelings.
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