Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 If you read others emails you will obtain information that can be hurtful to you and your family. You reeped what you sowed. Knowledge is power is power is usually never good. Good luck.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 30, 2008 Posted November 30, 2008 Your wife's actions show immaturity, selfishness and a lack of commitment to you, your marriage and your vows to each other. If she bails on these things so easily, so quickly at the first sign of trouble in your young marriage, you have a lot to think about. I feel for you, I really do. I would not even consider staying in this marriage without counseling. I believe the marriage is in a fatal state... you could try to "jump start" it, but it has a failure rate of over 70%. So, if you are not an overly forgiving person, open, honest, compassionate and she is the same - your marriage is not going to withstand the damage you two made.
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 There is no point in asking for details, is there... In fact, hearing them would probably only hurt me more. I think that as the days pass, the reality of what has happened will start to set in. I'm going to have to explain to her that I won't be able to recover from what she has done, and this is the beginning of the end of our marriage. This sucks. When I was offered a second chance, I took it with good intentions. I cheated again within 4 months, I think because I felt that I could get away with it. In the end it's your call, but her reasons sound very shallow! That should be a giant warning sign to you. My reasons sounded 100% similar, yet they were just surface issues, smoke and mirrors. The real reasons exist deep inside the heart.
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