brokenH Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 i been together with my gf for 7 yrs now. i had my share of breaking up and getting back together with her. she broke up with me in july 08 and got back together august 08. since we got back together she been telling her friends that we are still broken up. so what she does now is just go out to clubs with her friends that she told shes single. i get the feeling she is ashamed to have me back as a bf. she asked if we can be friends, i told her no. her facebook and my space still says single cus i asked and she told me she will change it later but that never happend. i just feel like im the safety blanket for her. she just wants to be seen as single and have me as a back up if things dont go her way, thats what i think.
dxb Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 so what she does now is just go out to clubs with her friends that she told shes single. And what exactly do you think she's doing when she's at those clubs? I'd be less worried about the friends who think she's single, and more worried about the guys there who think that. 7 years is a LONG time to have someone in your life, so it stands to reason that she probably isn't 100% ready to cut the cords - it'd be like losing a leg or something. So you gotta do it. she just wants to be seen as single and have me as a back up if things dont go her way, thats what i think. Spot on. Don't let her treat you like a doormat. Doormats are things you walk over to somewhere you want to go. No-one ever loved or respected a doormat. If she's ashamed of being in a relationship with you, you should have no shame in standing up for yourself, refusing that, and getting on with your life.
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