Jay34 Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 we are in a long distance thing for a little over a year, we had a break up because she kissed another guy, now since we have got together to my knowledge she has been very consistent, but last night she went to a dance club, with some classmates, i was kinda worried but i didn't think anything of it, i asked her who she danced with she said all her girlfriends and 2 guys, 1 was a friend of her girlfriend, but one tried to put his hand on her butt and she told me she said what are you doing and didnt dance with him anymore, it sounded like dancing that wasn't physical but i can't help to think this was hip hop night. but she did mention the guys and was honest but to be honest it bothers me. tonight she is also going to a club this is her 2nd time to a club and i was thinking about just telling her a have a great time, but do me a favor save the dancing for me. am i overreacting? or underacting, she couldn't not know something like this would bother me ?
sultry33 Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 we are in a long distance thing for a little over a year, we had a break up because she kissed another guy, now since we have got together to my knowledge she has been very consistent, but last night she went to a dance club, with some classmates, i was kinda worried but i didn't think anything of it, i asked her who she danced with she said all her girlfriends and 2 guys, 1 was a friend of her girlfriend, but one tried to put his hand on her butt and she told me she said what are you doing and didnt dance with him anymore, it sounded like dancing that wasn't physical but i can't help to think this was hip hop night. but she did mention the guys and was honest but to be honest it bothers me. tonight she is also going to a club this is her 2nd time to a club and i was thinking about just telling her a have a great time, but do me a favor save the dancing for me. am i overreacting? or underacting, she couldn't not know something like this would bother me ? chill;) she is being honest it seems, but if it bothers you then seriously you need to address it at some point will only cause problems further down the line. have you forgiven her for kissing another guy? as seems to still be in your mind:)
Author Jay34 Posted October 31, 2008 Author Posted October 31, 2008 to be honest i really have forgiven her for that, but the dancing thing feels so much worse, anyone with any other input
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