Never heard of alot of these rules...SO I guess i'm in NC relapse

[hardluckloser]

I'm young, she's very young, not yet out of college. We married quickly, too quickly. But I am still in love with her, only married just over 4 months and she left 3 weeks ago and never told me why. Came back the next day for a few things and just said she wasnt happy. I said Iknow and have been trying to talk to you for 2 months now about the financial strain and the move out of her home state. Still no reason, I sent a few emails for that week, no response, she came back and got most of her things a week later. I went 9 days NC and was stressed the whole time. I sent her flowers to her new work so she'd have flowers on her desk and no name just the generic card that said I love you. I got a call later from the florist and they said the recipiant called and asked who sent the flowers. Ouch. Then she emailed me later and said please dont send me flowers anymore, the only thing I want from you is to put your name on the lease or move out, I don't want two leases in my name. huff. If she wanted to leave the state so badly why would she sign another lease. Why was she so mean about teh flowers. WIll she ever tell me what i did or why she left? She only told me on her own fruittion and not in response to me, three times she loved me, but they were so random and amazing times when she did it so I know she meant it, but did she lose it or was she just trying to love me and it never developed.

[hardluckloser]

anyone?????

[lofi_tokyo]

Your first post is a little hard to understand, its a bit muddled. Maybe try breaking your story into small paragraphs each with its own idea?

 

That would get more responses.

 

You'll figure out why shes leaving eventually. My advice for now is to stop trying to win her back, its clearly pushing her even further away, and if shes asking you to stop, she means stop. She needs her space.