V.Vixen Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 in a woman? What makes her approachable? What can a woman in an everyday situation (ie: at the grocery store, or at the post office, etc) do to make you really want to approach her? If you are into a woman, will you definitely show your interest? If so, how do YOU do that? Are looks the most important thing, or does confidence play a bigger role?
Isolde Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Ooh I like the question about approaching women in public situations, I've always wondered what makes guys take the plunge or not
Dark-N-Romantic Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 in a woman? I'll try to stay with my top 10 in order... 1) Honest/honor 2) Intelligence 3) Compassion/Lovingness/Kindness 4) Bondability 5) Appearance (I'm into women with the thin, average, or atheletic build, nice sized breasts and kind of big bottomed) 6) Attitude/Respect 7) Spirituality 8) Kinkiness/Sexuality/Sensuality 9) Family Desire 10) Marital concepts What makes her approachable? Her asking me over. What can a woman in an everyday situation (ie: at the grocery store, or at the post office, etc) do to make you really want to approach her? Strike up a conversation with me. If you are into a woman, will you definitely show your interest? If so, how do YOU do that? It depends on the woman. I usually test the waters with seeing what she likes about me and I return the same in kind. I also might flirt and throw out comments laced with romantic and/or sexual innuendos. And if I really secure and am not in one of my "too afraid to talk to women" phases, I tell her outright. Are looks the most important thing, or does confidence play a bigger role? Looks first, then confidence. I prefer to deal with a woman who has the looks and be shy, bashful, or just plain modest, than someone who is confident and does not have the looks. Confidence can always be gained, unfortunately, looks aren't all that easy. But, now depending on how a woman uses her confidence, it sometimes does have some hold, but she still have to have something attractive about her body that I like. For example, I could and would date a confident woman with a few extra pounds, as long as she was working on losing it. However, it does not matter how confident she is, I am not looking to date bbws, unfortunately, I am just not physically or sexually attracted to really big girls. DNR
CaliGuy Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 in a woman? Too much to list. What makes her approachable? If she smiles at me and makes eye contact. What can a woman in an everyday situation (ie: at the grocery store, or at the post office, etc) do to make you really want to approach her? Same as above. If you are into a woman, will you definitely show your interest? If so, how do YOU do that? I smile back and make eye contact. I spark up a conversation and see if I can get a read. I try to make her laugh. I try not to stare at her boobs (seriously). Are looks the most important thing, or does confidence play a bigger role? In order: Confidence Personality Easy-going (easy to talk to) Attractiveness (to me) The age and maturity of a man determines what order. Just my $0.02....
Dark-N-Romantic Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Just a reversal to get to know you... How would you answer your own questions if you were looking for a man? DNR
Green Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 She could write her number on a piece of paper and hand it to me with a smile and say "call me" in a sweet voice
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