mrtorrance23 Posted October 30, 2008 Posted October 30, 2008 What can an ugly guy do to get a girlfriend?
Dark-N-Romantic Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 I've been wondering that question myself. I personally think it is all about being in the right place at the right time to be met, that or be rich and/or famous. DNR
User Named Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 "Ugly" guys can be attractive if they are smart and/or funny and/or considerate. Offer something more than a "pretty" guy would.
sultry33 Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 confidence and viagra:p seriously if you feel less than perfect then you need to change something..improve on other areas as above said however personally id be interested in a less than perfect looks if the guy was confident caring funny and sexy playful guys to me are hot;) some good looking guys i have known can be totally boring as they think they dont have to try
Taramere Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 What can an ugly guy do to get a girlfriend? The description "ugly" isn't very helpful. Ugly as in knock-kneed, buck-toothed, cross-eyed and scrawny...or ugly as in rugby player with an evil, bashed in looking face? If it's the former, accepting that you're not likely to hook a head-turner of a girlfriend and aiming lower is probably a good start. If it's the latter, just start going out more.
Zorie Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Saying you're "ugly" is pretty vague... I've known men with less than average looks that were super confident and took really great care of themselves which overall made them much more attractive! And others that for whatever reason either didnt care or just didnt bother with thier appearance or maybe just needed a little "help" that could have made a world of difference Initially appearance is what attracts two people but ultimately if there is nothing intellectually stimilating going on the chance of a growing relationship is slim. So if someone wants to find and keep a girlfriend its not all about appearance, personality will have a big role too. I personally find myself attracted to confident men with a sense of humor over someone that might be more attractive that has a serious blah personality.
torranceshipman Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 :DWell ugly or not, you have a cool username!
samspade Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 Stop thinking of yourself as ugly, first of all. Second, you're in luck, because women are much less looks-oriented than men. Confidence, humor, and charm will carry you much farther than looks as a man. The world is littered with pretty boys who don't have a clue and wait around for women to walk up to them. It's also littered with fat, ugly dirtbags who have beautiful women on their arms. Be confident and bold. If you're not sure how, well, fake it til you make it. And find something to excel at - a hobby outside of women. Don't concern yourself with "getting a girlfriend" so much as being a happy, comfortable man, and the women will come (in both meanings).
mark982 Posted October 31, 2008 Posted October 31, 2008 if your lacking(as you say) in the looks dept. you got to to some serious talking! be nice, funny, charming. all the things women are looking for.
You'reasian Posted November 1, 2008 Posted November 1, 2008 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - all the time, every time.
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