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well in my previous post i was talking about a girl who gave many signs that shes into me ( http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t168466/ )

 

well today she passes me a note during class asking to hang out tomorrow. of course i wrote yes and handed it back.... well after class we were talking and she mentioned a boyfriend very briefly.

 

wtf!? and to top it off when i said bye, she looked back and did the ol' "call me" i could tell with the eyes somethin is up

 

what could this mean?? is she looking to cheat on him or to maybe find a new relationship?

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You sound like you're in high school. If a girl mentions a bf, then she's got one. Calling her behind the bf's back is proof of you being the other guy. Unless you and her a good friends to begin with.

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Calling her behind the bf's back is proof of you being the other guy. Unless you and her a good friends to begin with.

 

what "other guy" are you talking about... you made 0 sense

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The "other guy" is just that. You have the girlfriend, the boyfriend, and the "other guy" involved with the girlfriend behind the boyfriend's back.

 

I don't know what kind of relationship you're after, but getting involved with someone who's taken (who also happens to be giving you the go sign) is usually not a wise move.

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The "other guy" is just that. You have the girlfriend, the boyfriend, and the "other guy" involved with the girlfriend behind the boyfriend's back.

 

I don't know what kind of relationship you're after, but getting involved with someone who's taken (who also happens to be giving you the go sign) is usually not a wise move.

 

damn are you sure? i was hoping maybe the relationship was going sour and she was looking for a new guy.... she doesnt seem like she'd be a slut tho

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Who knows, there's not enough information to tell from what you've posted. You could try asking her.

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Who knows, there's not enough information to tell from what you've posted. You could try asking her.

 

yea ill see tomorrow when we chill... just thought id try and figure it out before hand

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damn are you sure? i was hoping maybe the relationship was going sour and she was looking for a new guy.... she doesnt seem like she'd be a slut tho

 

If she was looking for a new guy, you could at least wait until she's actually " single". Works better for your conscious.

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If she was looking for a new guy, you could at least wait until she's actually " single". Works better for your conscious.

 

 

well yea if she says she not ending the relationship there's no way im hooking up and getting in the middle of ****

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well in my previous post i was talking about a girl who gave many signs that shes into me ( http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t168466/ )

 

well today she passes me a note during class asking to hang out tomorrow. of course i wrote yes and handed it back.... well after class we were talking and she mentioned a boyfriend very briefly.

 

wtf!? and to top it off when i said bye, she looked back and did the ol' "call me" i could tell with the eyes somethin is up

 

what could this mean?? is she looking to cheat on him or to maybe find a new relationship?

 

It means that she wants you, but she is an untrustworthy tart. She mentioned it "briefly" because she doesn't want you to think too much of it while feeling good about making sure you knew the whole story.

 

So question is, why do you want someone you know is more than capable of cheating?

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well yea if she says she not ending the relationship there's no way im hooking up and getting in the middle of ****

 

If it pissed you off enough, you could always tell her bf:rolleyes: Then get the popcorn out.

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If it pissed you off enough, you could always tell her bf:rolleyes: Then get the popcorn out.

 

 

na i dont step in other people's ****.... if this is the case i find out tomorrow im just ditchin it

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Honestly, it sounds like she sees you as a friend and just likes the attention you're giving her.

 

If she genuinely likes you, then she's not very trustworthy. You sound young. Go ahead and have fun with her, but don't try for anything serious.

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Honestly, it sounds like she sees you as a friend and just likes the attention you're giving her.

 

If she genuinely likes you, then she's not very trustworthy. You sound young. Go ahead and have fun with her, but don't try for anything serious.

 

yea i have a feeling if anything does happen it'll be at a frat party or something haha nothing serious

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